When it comes to awkward social situations, we've all been there—and probably more than once, too. You know the story—you're stuck in a conversation with someone whose name you don't remember, or who has something stuck in their teeth, or maybe they have a bad case of B.O. When you're faced with one of those cringe-worthy moments, it can be tough to know what exactly to do, but luckily for us, public speaking coach
Lauren Ferraro has some tips on how to tackle life's most awkward moments. Check out here advice below, and watch the video above to hear even more from Lauren!
GARLIC BREATH OR SPINACH/WINE TEETH
Like a Band-Aid, it's best to rip it off and get to the point
. If you make this a big deal, then it is a big deal! Keep it short and sweet—tell the person the issue, then change the topic. If you have something on you to help, like a mint, offer it up.
BODY ODOUR
Intent informs your tone. The person needs to know you're not out to embarrass them or offend them. Create a safe environment—it can be a sensitive issue—and let them know you completely understand, we've all been there. Downplay it a little, and most importantly, do not leave hints! Ask yourself what you would want said. Don't use the word "we" when addressing the issue—this makes it sound like it's the whole room or office is bothered, and can escalate the situation
. Finally, use words like odour, not smell.
NETWORKING NIGHTMARE
Ever been in a situation where somebody remembers you, but you don't remember them? There is a way out—ask for help! Turn the tables by asking the person for assistance, like "
OK, help me out here! You know my name and I am being so honest here...I can't recall yours...aren't I the worst?" Adding a bit of humour can help diffuse the situation even further.Don't be embarrassed—laugh! It happens. We live such busy lives, don't think you're going to recall someone in a split second and, furthermore, half the time at events, people are happy you asked because they can't remember you either.
AWKWARD CONVERSATION HOG
You're stuck in a conversation, and this person wants to talk to
anyone. It's time to remind yourself that you don't owe anyone your time, or to stroke their ego - tactfully, of course. Hear them out for a short moment until your gather what they're saying, give a positive response or hint that you've heard them, and then move on. "
Yes, 2 + 2 IS 4! Love this theory. Janie I have to dash now, let's pick up later." This is also an acceptable time to use an excuse to leave, like a call you have to make, or a pressing deadline.[video_embed id='1723448']Tips for getting back into the workforce after an absence[/video_embed]